Final Reflection (Letting Go)



My original plan was to do something to help combat the disturbing problem of lack of representation in children’s books. I wanted to write, illustrate and publish a children’s book featuring people of color and other underrepresented minorities. Taking on this project was as much about proving to the world the market and social value of these types of narratives as it was about proving to my myself that I was capable of undertaking such a project.
            Those of you who know me, know that I can be all over the place. My mind races, I speak at a hundred miles and hour, and when it comes to projects I like, I tend to dive headfirst into them. With my writing I get particularly intense. I throw myself into my work and I just delete and start over and delete and start over until it’s good enough (which for me it never is.). As a result in the past I’ve been late on deadlines for projects, completely started over on term papers mere days before their due, and pretty much put myself through hell every time I get a writing assignment. Writing for me therefore,  is treading on the fine line between catharsis and catastrophe.
            When you’re an artist, you see yourself in every filament of your work. You fall in love and then in loathing with your work as you admire what you made and then think of how you can make it better. The cycle can continue forever and when I have to stop, when the deadline’s grace period has passed or when your presentation is due next period, for me their isn’t a rush of relief as I turn it in or stand in front of the class. It’s more like a hollow feeling; I’m mourning, for the beauty that could’ve been.
            This project has been an experiment in me letting go. After I’ve done the best I can in the time that I have, and after I’ve tried and tried. This project has forced me to let go again and again. Can’t copy that painting you saw online after trying for four hours? It’s okay, let it go, you did your best.  Text won’t show up on a page after  you reformatted over and over? Its okay, let it go. Upset about having to chop your story down? It’ll be fine. Let it go. I’ve stopped obsessing with perfection (as much) and have grown as an artist because of it.
            This project has brought me physical pain (writer’s cramp, my hand still twitches occasionally), sleep deprivation, struggle, hardship, heartache, and tedium but now that I’m on the other side I’m happier because of it. I proved to myself that I could start something and finish it without burning myself out trying to make it immaculate.
            When you’re an artist, you’re giving pieces of yourself away, palms up, eyes down. Write a story, it’s not that simple. Draw a picture, it’s not that simple. When you create something that is valuable to you, giving it away when it’s not exactly right can be almost painful. This project was my attempt to lessen that pain for myself, I called my book Rough Draft for a reason. I’ve worked hard and now I’m giving my creation to the world, hands shaking. I’m resisting the urge to snatch back, to burn, to delete, to destroy and then rebuild. I am practicing becoming more and more content with my work. This is all that I can give. And that’s okay.



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